Please help me interpret this dream.?

The other night i had a dream about my favorite aunt who passed away in 1999. I dreamt that she was in her backyard (her home was the hub of our family) and she was picking at the honeysuckle bush. Everyone noticed that she was there for hours, but we all understood that she was deceased. Finally i told everyone that we should help her. When i said this she came inside of the house, and for some reason i was terrified of her and she kept following me. So i told all the family members that were in the house that we should repeatedly say " Cross Over"... seconds before i woke up my aunt said to the family that "He has come to get me" and i woke up whimpering "cross over, cross over" My boyfriend verified that i was actually saying this while waking up.





We have not had any occurences in her home (my cousin, her daughter, now resides there).





Is this just a dream or could it be more than that?

Please help me interpret this dream.?
First, there are three things important about this dream:





1. The honeysuckle Bush


2. The entry of your aunt to the house


3. The fear and crossing over.





I would first say that the Honeysuckle Bush is reminiscent of youth, representing both a fragrant and pretty look at youth and life. Your aunt I would venture a guess was a vibrant woman, who perhaps was very active in the family as a younger woman? Was there ever a period of estrangement between her and the family?





Second, your aunt may represent the passage of time, as she enters the house, she's entering a different phase. I would venture a guess that you are perhaps looking at a change in your life, a significant change, something from your youth coming to a close, or changing to where you're about to take a rather drastic step in your life?





Third, are you and your boyfriend getting married in 2008? The simplest interpretation is that you are ultimately transitioning into a new life, which is "He has come to get me". Do you have any pressure from your family to marry your boyfriend? Did your Aunt know your current boyfriend?





Just a thought or two.
Reply:This type of dream about a deceased loved one is very common. There was probably something a few days before that reminded you of this favorite person and manifested itself in your sleep. It is a sign that the spirit has finally gone over or crossed over, to a better place for her. Be at peace, for you have done a service to your aunt.


Spartawo...
Reply:Are you still grieving the loss of your aunt?


Yes, then this dream would be a plea to live life to the fullest and end the grieving. It is time to let her go before it starts to hurt you and your relationships (this can make you bitter towards others).


No, then the dream is a confirmation that your grieving is completed, but that another family member is not letting go. He/she may be fearful that letting go will mean that she will be forgotten. They should be encouraged to let go and end the grieving. Your aunt will live on in your memories. This dream could be shared by others in your family who have also completed their grieving.
Reply:No, it's more than a dream.. Dream-psychology has proven that we only dream about a loved one who has passed away when we have accepted the loss, your grief process is complete. Seeing any deceased person: the person has your best interest at heart and wants to tell you something that will support you. So, anything Honey means good fortune in business matters, and also a lack of self knowledge, the reason for your emotional complications, but recovery is in sight.. Honey promises "sweet rewards" for emotional work you did. The rewards are the direct result of the profound self-knowledge you have been able to achieve, you will have serenity. Good Luck to You dear person...Sweet Dreams.
Reply:This is kind of hard to answer since I cannot ask you a lot of questions. Something you could ask yourself is: You said that her home was the hub of your family. Are there any issues regarding your family or relationship with family members? Maybe something in the past. Maybe this is what you associated with your aunt. The fact that you were afraid of her could be fear of facing that situation. Thus the trying to get away from her or running away image. They say that this is avoidance and suggests that there is something that you need to address.This is a popular theory in many dream books that I have read. I am not sure what her statement to the family might mean.


Hope this helps.